Thursday, August 7, 2008

BFTP: SWEET ANGEL - ODE TO MY MOTHER


*Originally written & posted on January, 17, 2007

When it came to my sister and I, my mother always said she wanted to raise two angels. I’ll be the first to admit, I’m no angel. I got no wings, my wardrobe consists of various colors besides white, and I certainly don’t’ prance around with a glowing halo. In fact, like most of you, I’ve done things that I’d prefer to let slip through fingers of reminiscence and never look back on them.

As I continually mark entries of community service experiences, I search back on any certain moment I had in determining a devoted course to volunteer. As a result, there wasn’t an “aha” moment, I simply grew up with the concept of giving. For decades, a village in my homeland never has to worry about malnutrition nor lack of money to purchase rice. For decades, this village wanted to meet the providers who got them through the toughest times. Even the day a plaque was presented to my parents, true to their humble nature, they chose my aunt to receive it in their name.

In Chinese, two characters comprise the word “angel”: sky, and calling. Calling from the sky, I suppose, would be the translated definition. Throughout life, I’ve always deemed my mother as my sky. To raise an angel, she needs to absorb from one. I’ve learned from the best, I’ve always learned from my calling from the sky.
photo of me in white sequence dress, a color I'm slowing growing into.

**Last week, my mother was busy, I missed her dearly. This week, she's back to being my best friend, my playmate. It urged me to re-post this entry, as well as starting a new series called: Blast From The Past/BFTP, in which I'll post several entries from the past that are particularly worthwhile reads but did not generate enough notice. Now that I have few adoring fans of the blog, I invite you to peek at my blast from the past :)

53 comments:

Bella said...

I enjoyed this, Wendiva, and look forward to more. What a wonderful family you have!

Wendiva said...

awwwww...BIG AWWWW! thanks Bella :) xoxo!

Slyde said...

thats a great post.. its great that you have such a good relationshop with your mom;.

Wendiva said...

slyde - it really is the best!

Savvy Mode SG said...

sounds like your mother is a great woman. you are learing from the best then. it's very sweet of you to add me to your lovely blog. link you too.

Seraphine said...

i like to think my mother is an angel. she died a year ago from an infection. i also like to think i'll see her again one day, that she'll be waiting for me.
i like that you think of your mother as the sky.
and wendiva, most halos are unseen.

Wendiva said...

savvy mode sg - she IS an amazing woman :)

Wendiva said...

seraphine - i'm so sorry to hear about your mother, i know the pain never completely fades. thank you for the kindest words. much love sending your way :)

issa said...

aww your whole family is truly inspiring! glad you reposted this for all of us to read :)

and you look great in white!

Wendiva said...

issa - yay, glad to know u're a fan of BFTP! and thanks, i'm starting to really dig the color white :)

Lydia said...

Hello wendiva,
I think it's so nice that you and your mom are so close. I have found that mother and daughter relationships are true blessings from heaven. Me and my mom use to be the best of friends when she was alive.
I am looking forward to reading all of your blast from the past posts too.
Wishing you a very pleasant Thursday!
Lydia

Style Addict said...

Thanks for your comment.
Great Post! Very touching, it is important to have a good relationship with your mother. I added you to my blogroll.

Wendiva said...

lydia - yeah! i truly am thankful that i have such a great mom, she's amazing. sorry to hear about your mom's passing, but it's nice to know that you had such a great relationship with her too.

Wendiva said...

style addict - thanks!!!!

coco said...

Very sweet post. Great idea with the repost thing.

penelope said...

Aw that's a lovely post((: I'm still having goosepimples~ No kidding(:

Wendiva said...

coco - hope u like my future BFTP!!!

Wendiva said...

penelope - aww...i hope they're good "goosepimples!"

♥ fashion chalet said...

Pretty dress. And I love your name, Wendiva, its as gorgeous are you are! ♥

Thanks for commenting my blog, angel. xx

Seraphine said...

i'm so glad its a weekend! yay.

Kira Fashion said...

hi friend!

I just added you too!
thanks a lot for add me, your blog is fantastic, its a pleasure, i love to make new friends :)))

a kiss,
see you,
Kira

Wendiva said...

fashion chalet - hahaha thanks but i'm no angel ;)

Wendiva said...

seraphine - ME TOO!!!!

Wendiva said...

kira fashion - i love ur blog too! thanks for the add!!!

erin de la cruz said...

I LOVE YOUR SITE, WENDIVA! Classy... Chic... Oooh lala!

Wendiva said...

thanks erin de la cruz!! welcome back anytime :)

Paris Tarts said...

Awwww :)Great post.

Tart

Wendiva said...

thanks tart! luv ur name :)

stilettostetico said...

And frankly a great, sensitive tribute Dear Wendy . . .
Oooohh Nobody is an Angel, BUT you unmistakably have many human (and "Sexy Pin up-esques )qualities !!!
Hope You're Well.

A Bientôt, Antoine

Wendiva said...

merci antoine!!! i'm no pin-up girl, though ;)

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Carolina Lange said...

Your mom must be very special! You are very lucky to have such a great relactionship with her!

Wendiva said...

thanks carolina lange - a great mother/daughter relationship is very very special. makes every girl feel very lucky.

Farren said...

i hope i stick with blogging long enough to have a thing like a blast from the past. this is a good idea. <3

Wendiva said...

farren - i luv ur blog, so i hope so for u too!!!

Hunters Glory said...

Love the Chinese reference of the word "angel".

Figuring it out in you 20's lights the path for you future days! Many never figure it out at all.

Thanks for stopping by....

!\_ 'flashin fashion _/!

Wendiva said...

hunters glory - doing it fashionably :) you've got a great blog!

Style Addict said...
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Style Addict said...

I gave your blog an award on my site. come by and check it out!

Wendiva said...

style addict - alright!! i'm on my way :) thanks!!

* Fashion Dreamer * said...

Great post, it's nice you have such a great relationship. Sounds like an amazing mother x

Wendiva said...

thanks fashion dreamer - she is pretty incredible!

S said...

This is a beautiful post, just as you are a beautiful woman!

Wendiva said...

awww s - my mom is the beautiful one :)

♥ Marta ♥ said...

You are learning from the best and to me, generosity is the best quality a person can posses... Wonderful post :). P.S. Your relationship with your mother reminds me of mine, and now I'm going to give my mom a big hug, lol :)

♥ Marta ♥ said...

BY the way, you should definately wear white - you look stunning in it :)

Wendiva said...

marta - such kind and sweet words, thank you! and i'm gonna give mine a big hug now too :)

Ashleigh said...

you are such a sweety and come off very 'real" in your blog..<3

Wendiva said...

ashleigh - real is the way to go, baby!

Tiffany said...

oh, i love this Blast from the Past idea! very cool!

great blog, will be adding you to my reader!

Wendiva said...

thanks tiffany!! yay, i'll be adding yours too :)

atelier said...

great post, I had missed it!

Wendiva said...

atelier - glad you like it, yay!

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